The last Sunday of the month, we had another baptism. This was the 14 year old daughter of one of our members. She had been living somewhere else and recently came to live with them. The missionaries were teaching her. She was accepting, but still a little hesitant because she said she liked her old church better. I'm not sure what church it was. In April when she attended our Youth Camp and Conference, her attitude seemed to change. The Spirit that she felt there and the classes which were held, along with additional teaching of the Missionaries clinched it. We were happy for her. We invited her family to dinner so it would make the day special for her. They were happy to come and appreciated our invitation.
It's hard to believe that we keep turning over our calendar so often! With the July 4th holiday coming up, we wanted to do something for our American Elder. Two others were from Zimbabwe and another was from Switzerland. I wanted to decorate a little so the house would look festive. At a little party shop, I was able to find some red, white and blue sparkly pipe cleaners, which I thought I would put in a vase. They also had some red, white and blue angel hair streamers that I thought would look cute down the center of my red Christmas table runner. When I went to check out, I noticed some a small American flag suctioned to the window! I told him I needed that! The little Oriental owner asked me how many. I told him two. One for each bud vase, which in fact were just tall thin glasses.
Elder and Sister Hunt had some friends here who had just finished doing some volunteer work with "Mothers Without Borders". Since they had already planned to be in Kruger Park over the Fourth and wouldn't be able to be there for our holiday celebration, we went out to dinner with them the night before. Elder Hunt had converted this fellow and baptized him several years ago. He is now serving as the High Priest Group Leader in their ward. They have become like family to each other. We enjoyed a nice dinner at the Cicada Restaurant while visiting and getting to know these great people.
I had planned to do a picnic dinner out on our small patio. However, this particular day, it turned out very cold. Remember it's winter here. :) So we opted to eat inside instead. Some of the Elders enjoyed a game of "Scrabble" while I finished setting the dinner on. When I went to cut up the strawberries, I discovered they were still in the trunk of the car, and Lynn had the car. :( I had to send the Elders to the store for some more.
I thought my cheesy little decorations turned out quite festive for the holiday!
My menu consisted of Bar B Q chicken, (cooked in the oven because I didn't dare attempt to use our grill on the patio, potato salad, cole slaw, 7 layer dip and chips, drinks, and strawberry cream cake for dessert.
The Missionaries were ready to eat -- Actually, they're always ready to eat!
The Elders enjoyed the dinner. We had a chance to talk about America's Independence and acquaint the others with our holiday celebration. There was only one problem. Elder Baxter had to leave around 7:00 that morning for Barberton, about 45 minutes away, to take one of our members to the doctor to see about his eyesight. He is nearly blind, and he was able to get an appointment with a doctor at the Government hospital. When they got to examining him, he told them he had been diagnosed with sugar diabetes a few years ago. Because he has not had a job for over a year, he hasn't had testing supplies, and the diabetes was the reason for his loss of sight. When they checked his sugar, they discovered that is was very high and immediately started an I V on him. They checked the sugars levels again. It was still high so they did another I V. The bottom line was, he was at the hospital most of the day and didn't arrive home until after 4:00. We were supposed to eat at 1:00 so we could be finished in time for them to go for their late afternoon appointments. After the phone call from Lynn, we ate without him. :(
After dinner and dessert, while we were still waiting for Lynn to arrive, we got out the games and played "Timberrrr" It's kind of like "Jengo" that we have in the states. We all had a good time with that as we used all our strategies to try not to pull out the block that would cause the rest of them to fall!
Just as I finished dishing up some take home containers for the Elders, Lynn came. He was sad to have the party breaking up just as he arrived. He had them wait long enough for him to play the Mormon Tabernacle Choir's rendition of "God Bless America", just so he could have it really feel July 4th!
After he had something to eat, we made a trip to the Kazadi family who said they didn't want our visits any more. They are members, but have become inactive for some reason or another. It was Guy's birthday, and I had made him a blueberry cheesecake. We were praying that they would be home and that their gate would be unlocked. Our prayers were answered. The gate was not only unlocked, it was open. We parked, took our birthday dessert and walked to their door. Guy was sweeping the porch. We sang "Happy Birthday" to him and handed him the cheesecake. His wife and little girl came out to the porch to see what was going on. Naome hugged me for the longest time with the biggest smile on her face. It just made my day! Phumeza said, "I was just thinking about you and wondering if you had gone back home to the States." We told her we still had eight more months. She was making dinner so excused herself to check the things on the stove. I stepped in to visit with her for a minute. She said, "I've missed our visits." I almost jumped up and down! YES! I told her that I had missed visiting with her as well. We visited for a few minutes. She thanked us for thinking about Guy. We thanked them for allowing us to visit them for a few minutes and went on our way. I was grinning all the way home. I had been praying so hard that their hearts would be
touched to allow us to come visit again. (What do they say about, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"? Well anyway, we did feel success for a few minutes. It was progress, and we're not giving up! It was truly the highlight of our day! Today we were very happy to see Guy at church and he agreed to contact him again to arrange to visit their family.
We have been busy teaching a Temple Preparation Class to two of our sisters. Purine has been a member for about two years. Her husband is a nonmember, and she has a 22 year old son and a 10 year old daughter. Thundiwe is a single mom with a 16 year old girl and a 6 year old boy. We had finished the last lesson, and they were anxious to go to the temple for the first time. They also received their recommends for their Patriarchal Blessing. After we had finished our last Temple Prep class, we looked at the calendar to see what day they could make a trip to Johannesburg to go to the Temple. With the Temple scheduled to close July 15 through September 10 for extensive updates, they decided that Saturday, July 6th would be the best day to go. They didn't want to wait until our Branch Temple day on November 2nd. As long as we were going to be down there, we thought it would be good if they could get their Patriarchal Blessings at that time, as well. Since we are not in a Stake, we don't have a Stake Patriarch, so we have to go to Johannesburg to meet with a Patriarch there.
Plans were made. Lynn called and got appointments for their Blessings on Friday at 2:00 and their Endowments on Saturday at 11:00. We would leave Friday morning about 8:45, stay over night and return Saturday afternoon. Sister Jennifer, one our members was going along to be Purine's escort and I was to be Thandiwe's escort. They had originally planned to stay with family and friends in Pretoria. Everything came off as planned except for a few minor delays, but by 9:15, we were finally on the road. A couple of hours into our drive, Lynn called the Temple Patron Housing office, to see if, by chance, they had any cancellations. We had been put on a waiting list for our sisters to stay there. They did have an opening, so all three sisters were going to be able to stay at the temple patron housing near the Temple instead of driving to Pretoria to drop them off and get them again the next morning! That would save us an hour each way. Hooray! What a blessing!
The other exciting thing was, that one of our former members, Maggie, was traveling from Polokwane to Johannesburg to receive her blessing as well. We haven't seen her since last December when she left her boyfriend, who decided he "wasn't ready to get married and didn't know if he ever would be" and took her 14 month old daughter to go back with her parents so she could live the Gospel. We have stayed in contact with her. She calls us her "Mom & Dad" and says what a blessing we have been in her life to help her find the Gospel again. As I was in the Distribution Center helping our sisters make some purchases, Elder Baxter came walking in with a young woman. Low and behold. it was Maggie! She had just finished with her blessing when Lynn went in to check on our appointments. They walked over to find me. She hugged me and hugged me and cried because she was so happy to see us. She had prayed that we would be the first ones that she could share the joy of her blessing with, and it actually happened! She looked radiant! I could actually see a difference in her countenance since we last said "good-bye" to her last December.
We had to take some pictures outside by the waterfalls and lilies. I had made a fleece blanket with satin binding for her little girl. She called us later that night, just overjoyed with the gift and said her little girl loved it and how special it was to have something from her "Grandma and Grandpa"! We felt that it had been a blessing to be able to make connections with her. The strange thing was, that she came with some of her Branch members the previous weekend to receive her blessing, only to find out that she couldn't receive it because her recommend hadn't been signed by the Mission President. Her Branch President thought she could just have President Omer sign it when they came down. He hadn't check the President's schedule however, and because President Omer was in Botswana that weekend for a Farewell Conference, since they have been made their own mission, she couldn't get it signed. She had called me in tears because of the disappointment. She had made the appointment three months ago. I assured her that it still would happen, and not to be discouraged. I'm sure this was the reason she was to wait until the next week, so we could be there to be a part of her special day! The sadness of the last weekend had actually turned out to be a great blessing!
We tearfully gave our good-byes and took our other sisters over to the Area Office for their Blessings. Elder Hoffman, who is also our S/E Africa Area Medical Director, visited with us for a few minutes, to get acquainted with these two sisters, before giving them their blessings. We were able to be in there while they received their blessings. What a spiritual afternoon it had been!
After we left the Area Office, we went to the Patron Housing to get the sisters checked into their rooms. It was a large family room so they were all able to stay together. The cost was 50 rand, which is about $5. A real blessing for them. We had made reservations at a Bed & Breakfast nearby. By now it was after 4:00 and we all agreed it was time for something to eat. We went to a restaurant near the Temple called "Mike's Kitchen". They have a large menu to choose from and the food is always good. They placed their orders and Purine asked if she could get hers in a "take away" bag so she could eat it at 6:00 when she finished her fast. We assured her that finishing her fast one and a half hours before the 24 hour fast would be permissible since the reason for her fast had been accomplished. What a faithful servant she is! So she agreed and ate with the rest of us.
Saturday morning, we drove to the Temple. I went into the housing to get the sisters. As we were walking up the walk to the Temple, Sister Thandiwe said, "Oh, Sister Baxter, I'm so happy! I feel like being here with you and Elder Baxter, is like my Mother and Dad being here with me. I feel like I could just pick you up and squeeze you! I prayed that I would be able to stay at the Temple, and my prayers were answered!"
We had a beautiful day at the Temple! A family from the Branch had come down to do some Family History work, Baptisms, and have their son receive his Patriarchal Blessing. Our Branch President had made the long drive as well to be with us. It was a sacrifice on his part, as his baby daughter is in the hospital for the third time with bronchial pneumonia. The sisters were so grateful for their love and support.
The sisters are, Jennifer, in the middle is Purine, and Thandiwe is next to her.
Happy sisters and their escorts!
One happy group!
As we were getting ready to get in the car, Purine's sister, who lives in Pretoria pulled up to give her a hug and an endowment gift. Purine was so excited to see her.
As we were pulling off, Lynn asked the girls if they wanted to stop to get something to eat now or get something along the way. Thundiwe said, "Oh Elder Baxter, My stomach is so full of joy I'm not even hungry and couldn't eat a thing. I just want to go home and share my joy with my children"! Needless to say, we just got on our way. We were all overflowing with the joy of the beautiful past two days that we had spent together! We did go through the drive through of McDonalds about halfway home. They had never eaten at McDonalds, even though we have one in Nelspruit.
The next day at Sacrament meeting, of course these two sisters were the first to stand to bear their testimonies. Our hearts were full with the beauty of the blessing that we had received to be able to be a part of this special blessing in the lives of these two sisters!
These are only a part of the blessings that we feel every day as we serve our Heavenly Father. What a great opportunity to be a part of this wonderful work!
We hope you are feeling the blessings of our Heavenly Father each day in your lives. We are thankful for each of you and for your prayers in our behalf. We continue to pray for you and your families. We love you all! Have a good rest the month of July!